Ceremonial bowing and offering food at ancestors’ tombs—a case study

TL;DR:
This case study explores the cultural and theological dilemma faced by Korean Christians during Chuseok, Korea’s major harvest and family holiday. While the festival shares similarities with American Thanksgiving, it includes ancestral rituals at family tombs where participants bow, offer food, and seek blessings from deceased ancestors. An accompanying acrostic “BOWING” explains the traditional meaning behind ancestral bowing. An afterword outlines eight steps for cross-cultural sensitivity when evaluating such practices.

Drawing of a robed person bowing from the waist
Bowing, drawing by R. and K. Wood, 1948 | Image source

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Does the Korean Chuseok celebration involve worshiping the deceased?

Some general case study guidelines to aid reflection and discussion.

An American graduate student is teaching English in Korea. He writes to his professor in the United States with a question: Does ceremonial bowing at ancestors’ tombs carry meanings that make the practice unacceptable for Christians?

Here is the student’s letter:

Dear Professor:

In our Cultural Anthropology class, you had us do some case studies involving dilemmas faced by people of other cultures after they became Christians. I’ve been thinking particularly about those involving new Christians who felt they could no longer participate in some of the traditional practices their families expected of them.

During the September 17 weekend, Koreans celebrated a major holiday. The traditions associated with that holiday pose challenges for Korean Christians similar to those in the case studies we examined in class.

The name of this holiday is Chuseok (also spelled Chusok or Ch’usok). Chuseok is somewhat comparable to American and Canadian Thanksgiving because it involves a harvest celebration and is associated with the harvest moon.

The holiday lasts three days. During that time, many people return to their ancestral hometowns or family homes, where extended families gather. Gifts are exchanged, and large meals are shared. The holiday also provides an important opportunity for extended families to gather and discuss family matters. Chuseok is widely regarded as one of Korea’s most important traditional holidays.

What makes the celebration of Chuseok problematic for Christians is that, during the holiday, families visit the graves of their deceased ancestors. During these gravesite visits, rituals expressing gratitude to the ancestors are performed. The ancestors are thanked for providing materially for those currently alive. Prayers are addressed to the deceased, and food is often offered to them. Participants seek the ancestors’ blessing, and everyone bows before the tomb or tombs.

Today, I had a discussion about this with Dr. Cho, a Korean Bible professor from a nearby university who attends the International English Church. He told me that although he and his family visited the graves of deceased family members during this year’s Chuseok, they did not bow as is customary.

“Christians do not bow,” he told me.

Our pastor, who was present for part of the discussion, said that Catholics may be permitted to bow in this situation. He also noted that some Korean Protestants view such participation as incompatible with the Christian faith.

This issue is a source of tension in families in which some members have become Christians and refuse to bow at their ancestors’ tombs. Other family members may interpret this refusal as a serious rejection of the family.

If I am asked about the dilemma facing Korean Christians, how should I respond? Since bowing as a greeting is such a central feature of Korean culture, could Christians bow before an ancestor’s grave as a way of showing respect without worshiping the spirit of the deceased? If so, how could they distance themselves from prayers addressed to the deceased and food offered to them?
Sincerely yours,

    PBS description of Chusok

— Howard Culbertson, hculbert@snu.edu

Acrostic: Traditional Meanings Associated with Bowing at Ancestors’ Tombs

B – Blessing—Seeking blessings from ancestors and showing gratitude for their guidance.
O – Obedience—Demonstrating respect and filial piety, a core value in many Asian cultures.
W – Worship—Participating in ancestral veneration and honoring the spirits of the deceased.
I – Interconnection—Symbolizing the strong bond among past, present, and future generations.
N – Nostalgia—Reflecting love, remembrance, and appreciation for ancestors’ sacrifices.
G – Gratitude—Expressing deep thankfulness for the life, wisdom, and heritage passed down.

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Afterword: Eight Steps Forward

When Christians seek to help believers in another culture decide whether particular practices are appropriate, they should approach the situation with sensitivity and humility. They need a genuine desire to understand both the cultural context and the biblical principles involved. Here are eight action steps:

  1. Discussions must be based on mutual respect. Before addressing a cultural practice, build relationships and trust with local Christians and community members. This will help outsiders understand their perspectives.
  2. Learn about the cultural background and context of the practices in question. What might appear inappropriate to a cultural outsider could be understood differently by cultural insiders. Understanding a practice’s cultural significance can provide insight into why it exists.
  3. Seek guidance and insight from local Christian leaders who understand the culture’s subtleties. Their frames of reference can help outsiders navigate cultural complexities.
  4. Pray for wisdom both individually and collectively. Seek God’s guidance when making decisions about cultural practices.
  5. Instead of imposing personal opinions or cultural standards, focus on core biblical principles such as love, justice, compassion, and the pursuit of righteousness. Evaluate whether the practices in question are consistent with these principles.
  6. Foster an environment of open communication where all parties feel comfortable expressing their views and concerns without fear of judgment. Encourage dialogue that examines different points of view and seeks mutual understanding.
  7. Recognize and celebrate the diversity within the body of Christ. Different cultures may express their faith in various ways. Unity does not necessarily mean uniformity.
  8. Evaluate the possible consequences of either rejecting or accepting particular practices. Consider how these decisions might affect relationships within the congregation and the church’s witness in the wider community.

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