Gossip and Slander: A Devotional on Telling Tales

TL;DR:
Biblical holiness reveals itself in ethical speech and self-control. Using Bud Robinson's colorful warnings about "long-tongued" people, this devotional explores Psalm 15 and its call to reject gossip and slander. Psalm 15 challenges believers to seek the Holy Spirit's help so every conversation reflects the ideals of holy living.

Commentary on Psalm 15

Two pairs of people talking intensely to each other on a public sidewalk
"Gossip" photograph on Wikimedia Commons

Psalm 15 and Psalm 16:8–11

15 1 Lord, who may dwell in your sacred tent?
   Who may live on your holy mountain?

2 The one whose walk is blameless,
   who does what is righteous,
   who speaks the truth from their heart;
3 whose tongue utters no slander,
   who does no wrong to a neighbor,
   and casts no slur on others;
4 who despises a vile person
   but honors those who fear the Lord;
who keeps an oath even when it hurts,
   and does not change their mind;
5 who lends money to the poor without interest;
   who does not accept a bribe against the innocent.

Whoever does these things
   will never be shaken.

16 8 I keep my eyes always on the Lord.
   With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken.

9 Therefore my heart is glad and my tongue rejoices;
   my body also will rest secure,
10 because you will not abandon me to the realm of the dead,
   nor will you let your faithful one see decay.
11 You make known to me the path of life;
   you will fill me with joy in your presence,
   with eternal pleasures at your right hand.

Scripture quotations are from the Holy Bible, New International Version®, NIV®. Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc. Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

Week 50 Devotional: Telling Tales

Which Church of the Nazarene lifestyle guideline do you think is violated most often?

Is it tithing, active witnessing, not profaning the Lord's Day, or avoiding God-dishonoring entertainment?

I'm guessing that the one most often broken is the admonition against gossiping, slandering, spreading surmises injurious to the good names of others.

I have never heard anyone argue for abolishing this particular guideline, as I have heard people argue about some others. However, I have heard many people violate it. Most of us have probably been hurt in some way by the loose tongue of a fellow believer.

Portrait of evangelist Uncle Bud Robinson
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More than a century ago, a preacher named "Bud" Robinson had a lot to say about the tongues of people who identified with the Wesleyan-holiness theological tradition. Uncle Bud was a colorful character deeply concerned about the practical dimensions of the sanctified life.

One of his sermon illustrations involved a man who said, Brother Bud, my religious joy has all leaked out. What is my problem?

My, my! Bud replied. My friend, you keep your mouth open all the time.

Such specific teaching about the ethics of Spirit-filled living makes some people uncomfortable. They want preachers—and church lifestyle guidelines—to speak only in generalities.

However, Bud Robinson was on solid biblical ground when he admonished listeners to keep that rat hole in your noggin closed. (That's a Texan's paraphrase of Psalm 15:3.)

Psalm 15 begins with two questions. The Message paraphrases them this way: God, who gets invited to dinner at your place? How do we get on your guest list?

In answering those two questions, the psalmist does give the general requirement of moral purity. However, there is also a very specific requirement: One who tells no tales against his neighbor (v. 3c, NEB).

In his book Sunshine and Smiles, Bud Robinson describes gossip this way:

I have seen cows with tongues long enough to lick their calves through the crack of the fence.

Well, you say, that is a mighty long tongue.

Yes, it is, but I have seen longer tongues than that. I have seen people who could sit in their own parlor and lick their neighbors all around the country. They would make you think of a wagon—they need a breast yoke to hold their tongue up.

Without a doubt, satanic forces tempt us to enjoy passing along a juicy story about someone. However, Psalm 15 clearly reminds us that those whose walk is blameless and who do what is righteous do not spread tales about others (v. 2, NIV).

Just for a moment, ask the Holy Spirit to help you review your conversations from the past few days. Think about the last time you talked about someone with another person. Did you pass along gossip, an unverified story, or harmful speculation? Or was the conversation consistent with holy living and with walking in the path of life?

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Reflection Questions About Gossip, Slander, and Rumors

  1. Why do you think gossiping and spreading rumors are common problems among believers? What steps can individuals take to stop participating in them?
  2. Do you agree that we need an emphasis on the practical aspects of living out the sanctified life? How can believers better align their spiritual beliefs with their daily actions?
  3. Why is it significant that refusing to tell tales against one's neighbor is one of Psalm 15's criteria for living in close communion with God and dwelling in God's sacred tent? What can be done to challenge believers to live by this principle?
  4. Do you think social media has increased gossiping and spreading rumors among believers? Why or why not? Is it possible for believers to use social media positively to promote holy living?
  5. Why are some believers uncomfortable with an emphasis on the ethical dimensions of the Spirit-filled life?

—Howard Culbertson, hculbert@snu.edu

I wrote this devotional article while Barbara and I were serving as missionaries in Italy. It is one of a series of 52 brief devotionals written for The Standard, a weekly Faith Connections take-home curriculum piece for adult Sunday school classes published by the Church of the Nazarene.

Afterword: How Do Gossip and Slander Differ?

Gossip spreads personal information, hearsay, or speculation that may harm someone, even when the speaker does not intend to deceive. Slander involves false statements that damage another person's reputation. Both can wound people, erode trust, and fracture relationships. With the Holy Spirit's guidance, believers can respond with empathy, truthfulness, and self-control.

A Memorable Quote About Psalm 15

Acrostic: Slander

S — Speaking no evil of another, even when it's easy.
L — Letting truth, not rumor, guide every word.
A — Avoiding the subtle pleasure of tearing someone down.
N — Naming others with dignity, never with malice.
D — Disciplining the tongue to bless rather than wound.
E — Examining motives before repeating a story.
R — Refusing to weaponize words against a neighbor.

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